Trust
If I ask you ” can you feel safe with your partner even though you can’t trust him ? ” of course your answer is no ..
Trust need effort to be building so we need to build trust with our kids since they were born .
When he was a baby and start crying and you are busy you can tell him “i’m coming ” and leave what you do and going to your baby .
When you say give me this toy until you wear your pajamas when you finish give him the toy back
Don’t disappear from his sight suddenly even though you know he will cry .. Let him cry is better than you lie .
when he get older and you see how he is trust your word , you will be proud of your self
And remember ,
“Don’t make promises you can’t keep it “