The mirror
How many times you realized ,paused and say
” i’m talking like my mom and i hate this way before when i was a kid “
So it is important to know that your kids will imitate the way you talk , the way you get angry, the way you laugh .
every thing you do will copy in their subconscious .
When my toddler was 3 years i see that he imitates me ,i laugh and i didn’t care but when my second baby was born i observe that my older one treats his brother like me when i give him a hug or kiss he do that but when i became nervous , he also became nervous .
So when he was 5 years i saw the small copy of me with my strengths and weaknesses .
I know that his personality is forming like a jigsaw puzzle , but i wish he will be the best version of him self .
As we know mom is the most effective person
on her kids life so my tips is :
Don’t give up working on your self
If you made a mistake just forgive yourself and put a plan for give up And after one week evaluate the progress .
our kids are our chance to learn from mistakes and teach them that it’s ok to do wrong but the important thing is keep going On the way of repair
Example : your day is full of tasks and ask your son to play with his little brother he refuses you said it’s ok and after while you hear shouting like you did before so if i were in your shoes I’ll ask for a hug and help him to calm down after that i validate his feelings and apologize for shouting at him before .. In your deep down you have to believe that it will be fine and say
” i am a good mom and do my best every day “
