Happy kids
Remember when you’re a daughter and when you was sad and you was running to your mom to told her what’s going on and ask your self “what’s her reaction ” and answer in your mind .
Mom’s reactions depends on her personality and her temperaments . some of them show empathy and others shows carelessness even though her heart feel sad too .
Our attitude may be fluctuated between we want to teach our little kids how to understand their feelings , how to express their emotions and how to depend on themselves , build strong personality , so when feel that your kid are sad , disappointed you want to remove this feeling from his soul but it’s impossible you can help him to feel little bit better but you can’t protect him from his negative emotions .
I know at moms community we always blame ourselves on every thing happened .
when you’re at the market and your kid want some sweets you told him before it was forbidden but he insist at this moment he feel sad , may be hate you , don’t blame your self and don’t be sad to help him feel better you can offer a hug if he don’t mind but remember don’t succumb to his desires . show empathy , love that’s it and believe he’ll overcome his feelings .
Since your kid get older and go to nursery , school or kids area he will face many situations and he will feel happy , sad , fear , anxious .. Etc
our kids need 2 important things
First: they need your support to overcome any negative feeling by words and actions you must believe in them
Second: they need to know we have emotions too and they learn from us how to deal with it .
Remember: you can’t help him when you feeling bad so if you need some time to act wisely take it first and then start to talk with him but if your son is big enough to understand that his problem affect your emotions and you will be sad he may decide to never tell you his problems again and you’ll lose his friendship
I know it’s very hard to see our kids sad but you must concentrate on the main goal ” raising a confidence , high self-esteem , emotional intelligence ” and you’ll behave wisely .
